What I eliminated: It is known that during postpartum mothers have a tough time with baby blues, which is more common than I thought. when you are feeling frail best thing to do is to keep away from those who do not support you, helps to keep sanity. Don’t waste your energy on unnecessary drama. Focus on what is important and eliminate the rest, Make sure to not waste time on social media. Strangely I saw it everywhere, celebs quitting social media and stuff which did nothing but strengthen my belief, I decided, there is need to share every detail about your life.

Need for validation: You know what is best, do not depend on everyone (maybe a person or two) for assurance. It’s a process where you slowly find your confidence as a mother.

What I retained: Motherhood inspired me to become a better person: I found a need to push myself to set a better example for my little one. However, as usual this motivation is not present every day. But I didn’t give up on the idea. Work in progress in making my life richer.

Cherish every moment: Progress is slow but sure: with the baby now a toddler things can get out of hand. schedules mess up, you will adapt to become flexible. Don’t beat yourself for failing to do a task one day, next day try again and again.